We have all been there. With “all” I mean all parents. Our good behaving baby in the cart unexpectedly throws his pacifier out.

At first, we smile and give it back. Then over the days, it gets more frequent, and we start to say “NO”, we know the child reacts to an assertive voice. And in the end, we tell, if you throw it one more time… And the child will now learn that if he throws it out, no pacifier.

Actions and consequences, just like the book says: We teach the child to learn by showing that if he acts, he has to reap the consequences.